Breaking Perfectionism
The conversation dives into the damaging effects of perfectionism and the fear of abandonment that often drives it. It highlights the struggle to seek pleasure and happiness in relationships, especially when societal and familial expectations impose shame. Emphasizing that everyone deserves happiness and pleasure, the discussion encourages questioning ingrained beliefs that may hinder personal fulfillment.In this clip
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