What are arousal templates?

Arousal templates refer to the individual differences in what stimuli are sexually stimulating or aversive to a person. Some ideas may be stimulating for some people and aversive for others, and there could also be stimuli that someone is curious about but unsure of, or which might only be stimulating in certain contexts. Andrew Huberman discusses this concept to highlight the importance of understanding and communicating about individual sexual preferences and boundaries. Communication about arousal templates should ideally occur outside the bedroom and involve clear and personal language to ensure a comfortable and secure environment for both parties 1.