Childhood Beliefs

The concept of childhood beliefs is explored in several discussions on The Jordan Harbinger Show.

Example 1: David Smalley's Childhood Experience

David Smalley shares an anecdote from his childhood illustrating how his mother's religious beliefs and superstitions impacted him. At a very young age, Smalley tried to envision a way to reform "baby demons," only to be punished by his mother out of fear that he was possessed. This experience highlights how deeply held beliefs can influence parenting and shape a child's thinking and behavior 1.

Example 2: Tali Sharot on Changing Beliefs

Tali Sharot examines the factors influencing belief change. She notes that children's beliefs are particularly malleable due to their limited pre-existing beliefs and their strong reliance on adults for information. Sharot explains that as children grow, their beliefs solidify, making them more resistant to change. However, children are easier to persuade because they have less entrenched views and trust their elders more 2.

Example 3: Influence of Digital Technology on Children

Nir Eyal discusses how children today might turn to digital environments to fulfill psychological needs such as competency and autonomy, which they might not be getting from their real-world interactions. This shift is partly a reaction to the pressures of modern education systems that emphasize standardized testing, potentially making children feel incompetent, and driving them to seek validation online 3.

Example 4: Feelings of Safety Rooted in Childhood

Gabriel Mizrahi speaks about how childhood experiences can cultivate a persistent sense of insecurity, affecting one's feelings of safety regardless of actual achievements or life circumstances. Recognizing this can be the first step toward seeing past the trauma-induced beliefs and breaking free from the cycle of trying to achieve more to feel secure 4.

These discussions emphasize the profound and lasting impact that childhood beliefs have on an individual's worldview and behavior. They also highlight the challenges in altering these beliefs once they become deeply ingrained.