What to do with unwanted gifts?

Dealing with unwanted gifts can be tricky, but there are several approaches you can consider:

1. Appreciating the Thought: Understand that the giver's intention is often to show care or appreciation. Acknowledge the gesture even if the gift itself isn't something you want.

2. Re-gifting: If the gift is something that would be appreciated more by someone else, consider re-gifting it. Make sure it suits the new recipient and that it's in good condition.

3. Donation: Donating unwanted gifts to charity is a practical way to ensure the items find a home where they'll be valued. This approach can give you a sense of satisfaction and clear some space at home.

4. Direct Communication: In some cases, being honest yet gentle is the best way. Jordan Harbinger suggests saying, “Listen, Mom, I really appreciate all the gifts you’ve given us over the years... but most of the gifts you give us, we can’t really use them” 1.

5. Unpacking Only What Adds Value: Joshua Fields Millburn talks about the concept of a "packing party" where you pack everything up and only unpack items you actually use. This can help identify what really matters to you, leading to decisions about selling or donating the rest 2.

By using any of these strategies, you can gracefully manage unwanted gifts while remaining respectful to the givers.