How to increase self-esteem

Increasing self-esteem can be approached through various practical steps and mindset shifts. Here are some expert-endorsed strategies:

1. Practice Self-Compassion:

   • Engage in self-compassion activities like journaling, meditating, and exercising. These help foster a kinder relationship with yourself, reducing self-criticism and building self-esteem. Setting achievable goals and mastering small tasks also contribute to this process 1.

2. Keep Small Commitments:

   • Sticking to small commitments you make to yourself (e.g., getting up at a set time) can significantly boost your self-image. Acting consistently on these commitments builds a foundation of trust in yourself, enhancing self-esteem 1.

3. Perform Esteemable Acts:

   • Accomplishing challenging tasks and helping others can elevate self-esteem. Esteemable acts, whether for yourself or through services to others, incrementally build a positive self-image 2.

4. Self-Compassion Over Self-Esteem:

   • Instead of constantly seeking to boost self-esteem, cultivate self-compassion, especially in the face of failure or rejection. Understanding that it's okay to feel pain and offering yourself kindness rather than harsh judgment can lead to more stable and genuine self-worth 3.
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5. Focus on Strengths:

   • After facing rejection or failure, combat the natural tendency to be self-critical by focusing on your strengths and what you bring to the table. Regular self-affirmation exercises can help revive self-esteem 4.

6. Pursue Meaningful Wins:

   • Engage in progressively bigger projects or tasks that matter to you. Successes in meaningful areas of your life naturally build self-esteem, as they reinforce your capabilities and reduce impostor syndrome 5.

7. Develop Autonomy:

   • Building autonomy and learning to advocate for yourself in relationships or other areas of life can significantly raise self-esteem. This involves taking responsibility for your well-being, making your own decisions, and setting personal boundaries 6.

8. Avoid External Validation:

   • Relying on others for validation makes self-esteem fragile. Building self-esteem internally by recognizing your worth and capabilities independently of others' opinions ensures it remains stable 7.

By integrating these practices into daily life, you can steadily enhance your self-esteem and foster a healthier relationship with yourself.

To boost self-esteem through daily activities, consider incorporating the following expert-endorsed practices into your routine:

1. Morning Routine:

   • Spend some intentional time at the start of your day. Priyanka Chopra Jonas suggests taking time in the bathroom to shower, pick an outfit, and engage in a skincare routine. This helps set a positive tone for the day and allows for introspection before the daily rush 1.

2. Mindfulness and Reflection:

   • Dedicate moments of silence to reflect on the day ahead and what you'll accomplish. This practice can help reduce erratic behavior and build confidence in your actions throughout the day 1.

3. Gratitude Practice:

   • Regularly count your blessings. When feeling overwhelmed or insecure, taking time to list five things you’re grateful for can shift your perspective positively. This routine helps in maintaining a grounded and appreciative mindset 2.

4. Self-Compassion:

   • Engage in self-compassion activities like journaling, meditating, and exercising. These practices foster a kinder relationship with yourself, reducing self-criticism and promoting self-esteem 3.
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5. Setting and Achieving Small Goals:

   • Focus on setting and achieving small, manageable goals. This not only gives a sense of accomplishment but also builds confidence in your abilities. Even small successes, like learning a new skill incrementally, can significantly boost self-esteem 3.

6. Consistency in Actions:

   • Keep small commitments to yourself, like waking up at a specified time. These minor actions may seem trivial, but consistently honoring them strengthens your self-image and self-esteem 3.

By consistently applying these activities, you can develop a stronger sense of self-worth and confidence in your daily life.