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Published Nov 17, 2023

Hotline Calls: How to Not F*ck Up Your Threesome

Emily Morse delves into essential topics for enhancing sexual experiences, including self-pleasure during life transitions, navigating relationship challenges, and the art of sexting. She also offers invaluable advice on maintaining healthy dynamics in threesomes, emphasizing boundaries and emotional readiness for a successful encounter.
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  • Boundaries

    Establishing clear physical and emotional boundaries is crucial before engaging in a threesome. emphasizes the importance of discussing what is off-limits, such as penetration or sharing personal details, and whether the third party will stay overnight 1. These boundaries should be adaptable, but any changes must be consensual and communicated clearly with your partner 1. Emily also notes that some partners may not want to know about past threesomes, highlighting the need for open communication about comfort levels 2.

    The rules can change, but they have to change consensually. With your partner.

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    This approach ensures that all parties feel safe and respected during the experience.

       

    Finding Third

    Finding the right third person for a threesome can be challenging, but there are various methods to explore. suggests attending play parties, which offer a safe environment to meet like-minded individuals without the pressure to engage 3. Apps like Field are also recommended for couples seeking a third, as they cater to those interested in non-traditional relationship structures 4. Emily shares a success story of a couple who found a regular third partner through Field, enhancing their intimacy and trust 4.

    It's hard to find a third person because that's more fraught. You meet someone right about the bar, it could be more dramatic.

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    These platforms provide a vetted space for exploration, reducing the risks associated with meeting someone randomly.

       

    Emotional Prep

    Emotional readiness is key when considering a threesome, as it can significantly impact relationships. advises couples to role-play scenarios to gauge their comfort levels and address any emotional concerns beforehand 5. She stresses the importance of being mindful of drug and alcohol intake, as these can impair judgment and lead to regrettable decisions 5. Apps like Field help ensure that all parties involved have clear intentions and boundaries, fostering a safer and more enjoyable experience 5.

    It's really hot to dirty talk this and role play. When you're with your partner intimately and you're having sex, you could talk it through.

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    This preparation allows couples to explore their fantasies while maintaining trust and connection.

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