How to Find Good Love After Bad with Lily Collins (Best Of)

Voice & Empowerment

Lily Collins shares her journey of reclaiming her voice after years of being silenced. She emphasizes the importance of expressing oneself fully and confidently, even when it feels uncomfortable. Lily explains how she learned to embrace vulnerability, allowing herself to communicate openly and honestly in her relationships.

I was called inappropriate so many times for using a voice and now I'm being told, no, no, no. Use your voice to the loudest capacity that you have.

--- Lily Collins

This newfound empowerment has enabled her to find a partner who encourages her to be her boldest self, fostering a relationship where she feels both held and free 1 2 3.

   

Building Confidence

Building confidence after experiencing emotional toxicity involves reprogramming one's mindset to trust intentions and words again. Lily discusses the challenges of overcoming past experiences where words did not match intentions, leading to self-doubt and mistrust. She highlights the importance of recognizing and addressing inner conflicts to foster healthier relationships.

It's not that we're crazy. It's because we've been in places where people did say one thing and mean another thing.

--- Glennon Doyle

By acknowledging these internal struggles, Lily has learned to navigate conflicts with more clarity and assurance, ultimately leading to personal growth and stronger connections 4 5.