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Published Feb 25, 2015

Episode 580 - Kevin Allison

Kevin Allison details his compelling journey from early sexual identity exploration to experiencing kink and BDSM, weaving humor with poignant insights. He delves into his comedy career from 'The State' to storytelling with 'Risk!', navigating childhood challenges and embracing vulnerability and self-expression.
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  • Awkward Realizations

    Kevin Allison shares his early sexual experiences and realizations about his sexuality. His first kiss, during a spin-the-bottle game, was underwhelming, leading to a dream about kissing a boy, which was more impactful 1. Kevin recalls coming out to himself at age twelve after watching "E.T.", feeling like an alien in love with the protagonist 2. He humorously reflects on his childhood experiments with a friend, noting the innocence and manipulation involved:

    I had put a lot of pressure on the moment. It was the first spin the bottle game in the fifth grade, first alcohol party.

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    These experiences laid the foundation for his later life and storytelling.

       

    Kink Discoveries

    Kevin's journey into kink and BDSM began unexpectedly at a kink camp, where he was challenged to embrace new experiences. Despite initial hesitations, he found himself exploring boundaries and forming connections within the kink community 3. He describes how the internet facilitated his exploration, allowing him to connect with others who shared similar interests 4. A particularly memorable experience involved a role-playing scenario that tested his comfort levels:

    I want you naked, bowing on the floor with blindfolded for when I arrive.

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    These explorations were pivotal in his personal growth and understanding of his desires.

       

    Relationships

    Kevin reflects on his romantic relationships and evolving preferences, particularly his attraction to Asian men. He humorously questions whether he should seek therapy for this preference, noting its long-standing nature 5. His marriage to a Filipino man marked a turning point, leading to an open relationship with strict boundaries 6. Kevin explains:

    It was an open relationship, but it was open with very strict parameters. There was no actual romance allowed to be happening with other people.

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    Despite the end of his marriage, he remains friends with his ex, highlighting the importance of mutual understanding and respect.

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