195 - Wellbeing and Online Dating

Platform Evolution

Online dating has transformed significantly over the past decade, shifting from websites to mobile apps. Dedeker Winston reflects on the early days when using dating websites was often seen as embarrassing, contrasting it with today's widespread acceptance and use 1. Jase Lindgren shares statistics showing that 25% of people engage in online dating, with even higher percentages among younger demographics 1.

It's amazing that you met Jace online, to me.

--- Emily Matlack

This evolution highlights the growing normalization and success of online dating in forming meaningful connections.

   

Current Trends

Current online dating trends emphasize mindful engagement rather than impulsive swiping. Emily Matlack suggests slowing down the swiping process to better understand one's emotional responses to potential matches 2. This approach contrasts with the addictive nature of rapid swiping, likened to gambling by Jase Lindgren 2.

It's a little bit like playing a lottery or a slot machine.

--- Jase Lindgren

Additionally, Dedeker Winston notes that many dating tips focus on superficial aspects, urging a deeper focus on personal well-being and authentic connections 3.

   

Research Gaps

There is a notable lack of research on online dating within non-traditional relationships, such as those involving consensual non-monogamy. Jase Lindgren points out the absence of studies on this growing demographic, despite its significant presence in online dating spaces 4. Emily Matlack expresses a desire for more inclusive research that encompasses diverse relationship structures and identities 4.

I want them to do a study on this regarding non-monogamous populations, but there isn't any.

--- Emily Matlack

Such research could provide valuable insights into the dynamics and communication styles unique to these communities.