152: Create A Thriving Marriage

Couple Culture

Creating a unique couple culture involves engaging in shared activities and showing interest in each other's passions. Chase Kosterlitz emphasizes the importance of acknowledging your partner's interests, even if you don't share them, as it fosters a sense of connection and engagement 1. Dale McGowan adds that participating in activities together, whether it's a hobby or a business venture, helps bridge emotional gaps and prevents the "nothing" from eroding the relationship 2.

It's important to her because it's important to you. Now, she doesn't serve sometimes.

--- Dale McGowan

By creating a couple culture, partners can maintain a dynamic and fulfilling relationship.

   

Activities

Engaging in new and exciting activities together can significantly strengthen a couple's bond. Chase Kosterlitz highlights the upcoming Hood River Couples Retreat, which offers couples the chance to try activities like waterfall hikes, whitewater rafting, and wine tasting 3. These experiences not only push couples out of their comfort zones but also provide opportunities for direct relationship-building exercises designed by therapists.

The whole idea is that you're going to come, and Sarah and I right there with you are we're going to try new things.

--- Chase Kosterlitz

Such adventures can enhance the connection between partners, making them feel closer and more united.