Pain and Practice
Koshin reflects on the realization that many people react to their pain without understanding it, leading to a cycle of suffering. He emphasizes the importance of staying present with discomfort, suggesting that both physical and emotional pain can serve as opportunities for deeper insight. By learning to ride the waves of pain, one can uncover a broader perspective beyond the immediate struggle.In this clip
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Balancing Joy and Sorrow: Courage & Compassion to Live Your Best Life. With Koshin Paley Ellison
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