#103. How a Pastor Views Church Hurt, Do We Have Free Will, and Is God Really Dead? — James Lee

Church Hurt

Church hurt is a significant issue that many people face, often stemming from leaders who deflect rather than listen. James Lee acknowledges this problem, noting that young people often feel their doubts are dismissed, leading to feelings of alienation 1. He emphasizes the importance of processing these feelings together rather than forcing religious beliefs onto others. Lee also offers an apology to those who have been hurt by the church, expressing empathy and a sense of responsibility to care for people properly 2.

I apologize for, to anyone, to everyone that's had that bad experience. That's really heartbreaking to me that this still happens to this day.

--- James Lee

He stresses the need for a careful approach, suggesting that counseling can be beneficial for those struggling with church trauma.

   

Suffering & Free Will

The problem of suffering is a profound question that challenges many believers and non-believers alike. James Lee admits that no answer may ever fully satisfy the question of why suffering exists if God is benevolent 3. He suggests that free will plays a role in this complex issue, acknowledging ongoing debates in theology and philosophy. Benoit Kim4.

God whispers in joy and pleasure, but he screams through megaphone or God uses pain as a megaphone.

--- Benoit Kim

Lee argues that prayer should be complemented by action, using resources available to us, like medical help, as part of God's provision.