Published Aug 14, 2018

You 2.0: When Did Marriage Become So Hard?

Explore how evolving marriage dynamics challenge traditional expectations, as Shankar Vedantam and Stephanie Coontz delve into alternative relationship models, the concept of a growth mindset, and strategies for transforming conflict into opportunities for emotional growth and support. Discover how redefining relationship structures can alleviate stress on modern marriages by spreading emotional needs across multiple connections.

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Mindset Matters

Marriage as a Mountain

Adjusting Expectations

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Rethinking Relationship Needs

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Redefining Relationship Dynamics

Conflict and GrowthExploring the concept of a growth mindset in relationships, Stephanie Coontz discusses how it can transform conflict into a tool for strengthening bonds. She also highlights the importance of diversifying emotional support to maintain a stable and fulfilling marriage.

Conflict and Growth

Marriage ExpectationsShankar Vedantam explores the evolving expectations of marriage, highlighting how they have shifted from practical alliances to complex emotional partnerships. He examines the challenges these heightened expectations pose and offers insights into managing them effectively.

Marriage Expectations

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