Published Dec 20, 2017

Dr. Bianca Harris

Dr. Bianca Harris joins Dan Harris to uncover the transformative power of meditation in their relationship and parenting journey, sharing candid insights on overcoming resistance, embracing personal growth, and prioritizing self-care amidst life's challenges.
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  • Initial Resistance

    Bianca Harris initially resisted meditation due to her demanding medical career and personal challenges. She explains that her hectic schedule during medical training left little room for self-care, contributing to her reluctance to meditate 1. Despite her early interest in Eastern philosophy, the pressures of her internship and residency overshadowed her personal needs 2. Bianca reflects on how her busy life made it difficult to prioritize meditation, saying, "I really did genuinely think it was going to get better, and it didn't for different reasons" 2.

       

    Motivating Factors

    Bianca's motivation to meditate evolved as she sought balance amidst her professional and personal life changes. She humorously notes that part of her motivation was to "get you off my back," referring to Dan's encouragement 3. The birth of their child and the challenges of motherhood also played a significant role in her decision to embrace meditation 3. Jeff Warren, described as the "meditation MacGyver," provided Bianca with personalized guidance that reframed her approach to self-care 4.

       

    Practice Insights

    Through meditation, Bianca gained valuable insights into her behavior and emotions, finding a new sense of calm and awareness. She acknowledges that meditation helped her manage anger and frustration, providing a "space between stimulus and response" 5. Bianca's practice, often integrated into her son's bedtime routine, allowed her to transform a challenging time into a meditative experience 6. She reflects on the benefits, stating, "I felt changes in my sort of day to day perception of myself and events" 6.

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